Why did you have sex? Someone dared me
Maybe you want to think about the reasons given. Do they make sense for you ?
— learn from the mistakes of others, you can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.
Dares worked on me when I was in grade school. I did some dumb things. But that is something we all grow out of. If you are mature enough to consider having sex, you are mature enough to be able to ignore dares.
Reasons why people have sex
Most of the reasons given for having sex are from a list that Dr Cindy Meston and Dr David M Buss compiled from a survey they took. Their list provided 232 reasons.
Compare this to the advice is Song of Solomon She was flirting with the guy and getting turned on — Wait She was serious about the guy and ready to make it permanent — Wait. The guy was the one who was taking the lead in waiting. Married, committed –Go for it and Enjoy it. After a fight and make up sex — go for it and Supercharge it.
You will never get to Great Sex until it involves your heart, soul, mind and strength. And until you love the other person as much as you love yourself. All of this has to apply to the other person too. Two people all the way into the relationship or it will never make it to great.