That doesn’t mean that it automatically will be great. The first thing that a man and a woman have to realize is that men and women are different. The physical differences are the most obvious, but other differences are just as important to acknowledge. The brain is wired differently. People that do brain scans can not tell the race of a person by looking at the image of a brain scan, but they can tell you if it is a male or female.
Imagine that a young married couple was given a test like this: start at the bedroom door, set a timer for 5 minutes. Have sexual intercourse and finish before the timer goes off. What kind of results should be expect? I think this is what you would find most of the time.
The guy comes out and says “hey, what do you know, I like this test.
The girl comes out and says “hey, what do you know, he really liked this test. It really didn’t do much for me”
Why? Her body starts much slower and lasts longer than the guys body. It takes longer to warm up and it cools down slower. His body can go along in idle mode if he works at it, but when it starts it goes fast and ends faster. This is one area where they have to figure out how to make it work for both of them.
This leads in to the next conclusion………
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