If either the man or the woman can initiate and take the lead in what they do sexually, the possibilities of great sex are much greater.
It is also harder.
If guys insist on making the first move, they have this advantage.
If they don’t feel like having sex, they just don’t initiate it.
Nice and safe. It works for them.
But it also limits the sex greatly. Look at how she sets the mood,
makes the off,
keeps him interested when they are making up.
Harder to deal with, but more benefits.