You have ‘casual’ sex. The guy falls asleep. That might not seem cool, but it is probably better than actually having a conversation. He would be stumbling around trying to think of what to say. If you could read his mind, you might hear this.
Cool, I had sex, well we had sex. Now what is her name.
How quickly can I leave?
She is easy, not the type I’d have a long term meaningful relationship with
Hope she doesn’t ask THE question — What does this mean?
So he is glad that HE had sex, and that you were a wiling participant. At least you were more useful than his hand in helping him get what he wanted.
As fired up as he was before the sex, ready to do about anything to get there, he is now ready to do other things. Well, first his blood has to get balanced out a little. There is something physical going on that leaves him a little light headed or sleepy. You really shouldn’t take anything he said while he had an erection seriously.
If he thinks you are EASY, doesn’t that make him easy too? Guys are good at blaming the girl — see Adam blame Eve in Genesis. A bunch of guys brought a girl to Jesus and said they had caught her in adultery. Where was the guy? For it to be adultery, they were have to be a guy. again, blame the girl. Guys have a long track record of blaming the girl and putting the responsibility on her.
It means that HE had sex with a real girl — score, home run. To him it means that he was awesome enough to get a girl to have sex with him. He doesn’t even feel bad if he needed to get her sort of drunk or high before she was willing to do it.
Girls, aren’t you glad you were able to be of use to him?