CSUF Clubs, groups. Here is the offer. Listen to me present the story in Song of Solomon (a small book in the old part of the Bible), and I'll provide each person with a women's swimsuit. Guys, sorry they are all women's swimsuits. But is still might work for you. Get your group to listen for the hour, then give a women's group the … [Read more...]
There is much to be learned from others.
"Learn from the mistakes of others, you can’t live long enough to make them all yourself." ~ Unknown author
Easy for you to say
They had a fight. In Chapter 6, he comes back and makes up with her. He praises her, which is always helpful, then gives a weird round about explanation of where he went. She accepted his explanation and they went off together to patch things up. Sometimes you need a little space apart to think things through. You need some time together … [Read more...]
Assume — ASS out of U and ME
The minister that counseled us before we got married used this illustration. If we assume things about our spouse and how life will work out we make an ass out of u and me ASS U ME He was right. Try this if you are dating. Ask each other about 'fixed patterns of personal behavior'. For example -- when you wake up in the morning how do … [Read more...]
Pebbles in a Pot
There is a story, a proverb that goes around the Hollywood circles that goes something like this. The first time you have sex with someone, get a flower pot and toss a pebble into the pot. Each time you have sex during the next six months, throw another pebble into the pot. After six month, each time you have sex, take a pebble out of the … [Read more...]
Boundaries and Stumbling Blocks
In Song of Solomon, we get the formula of wait, wait, go for it. Maybe you want to make up your own formula, like if it feels good do it. Get lots of experience so that you will know when it is the real thing. Some problems with that: If you have vast experience at sex, it becomes something to make your body feel good, and maybe the other … [Read more...]
