A guy can be creative when he is trying to reach a goal. He will work very hard at it. If the goal is sex, he will be creative and work very hard until he gets it. Then the creativity becomes optional. It becomes part of the routine, or he finds another goal — sex with someone he hasn’t had sex with. Then he becomes creative and works hard to get sex with that person. Until he gets it…..
Girls will work to get in shape. They will take an interest in whatever dumb thing he likes, football or nascar, or monster trucks or fishing. Once she has him ‘locked up’ that fakes interest will go away, and she will start ‘training’ him and ‘changing’ him, or ‘correcting’ him, until he acts the way she thinks he should act. Actually she may think that she has made him into what she thinks he should be, but she will settle for him acting like it.
Be yourself. Find someone who likes you for who you are. See if you like them for who they are.
Your odds are much better this way of having a relationship that both of you can enjoy. A relationship that can grow together.