Questions for Students

Questions for students

Section One
FLIRTING  1:1 – 2:7

• Who calls her ‘most beautiful of women’?  1:8
• Is She describing an action or a wish?  2:6
• Is she following her own advice?  2:7

Section Two
BECOMING SERIOUS  2:8 – 3:5

• Is the guy saying NO (in a very careful way)?
• Have they had sex yet
• What DAY is she talking about?  2:17
• Is she following her own advice now?

Section Three
THE WEDDING NIGHT  3:6 – 5:1

• My sister my bride – Is she his sister?  4:9
• Have they had sex yet?  Verse 4:15
• How about now? Verse 5:1
• Who is giving approval?  5:1
• Who took the lead in the timing, the pace?

Section Four
THE FIGHT  5:2 – 5:7

• Why was she upset?
• Was she trying to avoid having sex?
• Did he think he had done anything  wrong?
• Did she think she had done anything wrong?
• Who was right?

Section Five
HELP  FROM FRIENDS  5:8 – 6:3

• Were the friends helping, or giving her a little pay back?
• The ivory – is that a reference to his ‘member’ ?
• In their second question, where did the friends think he had gone?
• Where did she think he had gone?

Section Six
RECONNECTING – HE COMES BACK  6:4 – 12

• Think you can explain what he said or which translation is correct?
• Who are the queens?
• Does she understand what he is communicating in 6:11-12?

Section Seven
MAKING UP CONTINUES ALONE  6:13 – 7:10

• Dance of the two camps.  What is it? 6:13
• Is she doing some kind of movements or dance? – 7:1
• What is she wearing – your opinion?
• Was she trying to excite him?
• Over the lips and teeth – what does this verse mean? 7:9

Section Eight
WORKING HER PLAN 7:11 – 8:5

• Is it ok for the girl  to make the first move?
• Is it ok for her to take the lead in lovemaking/sex?
• The brother, and mother references – Is she teasing him?
• What does she mean ‘old and new’ ?
• Explain why she has mandrakes.
• Is she repeating the warning that she gave twice before, or is this a warning to NOT hold back, but to go for it:  8:4

Section Nine
WARNINGS  – 8:6 – 8:7

• Can money buy love?
• Jealousy – Is it good or bad or does it depend on how it is used?
• SEX – Is it good or bad or does it depend on how it is used?
• LOVE, ROMANCE, MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIP – same question..
• On your arm, on your heart.  What does she mean?

Section Ten
CONTENTMENT 8:8 – 8:12

• Her comments about her own breasts –Does her confidence increase through the song?
• Does she feel confident in the relationship?
• Will ‘boarding up’ the young girls work?

Section Eleven
STILL THE ONE  8:13 – 14

• Did they live happily ever after?
• If you  follow the pattern in Song Of Solomon will you live happily ever after?
• Does this verse show that they are working at making time for each other?
• Does she still  like Sex?

Section Twelve  Bonus Section
Extra Questions

• Guys, would you like a wife who is this aggressive and confident sexually?
• Girls, would you be more aggressive or more passive than this girl?
• Sister/bride – How equal would you want your relationship to be?
• Would it be worth it to give up some opportunities for sex now to wait and create a relationship like this?
• Would it be worth it to give up some opportunities for sex now, even though you had no idea if you would ever be in a good relationship?