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Reasons Why People Have Sex – 18

November 7, 2011 By dschenk Leave a Comment

Reasons Why People Have Sex when they just do their own thing.

  • It is my genetic imperative
  • It was an initiation rite to a club or organization
  • I wanted to become more focused on work – sexual thought are distracting
  • I wanted to say “I’ve missed you”
  • I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion
  • I wanted to say “I’m sorry”
  • I wanted to return a favor
  • I wanted to say “Thank You”
  • I wanted to welcome someone home
  • I wanted to say “goodbye”

List from a survey by Dr Cindy Meston and Dr David M Buss

Compare to Advice in Song of Solomon

1) She has been flirting with a guy and she is getting turned on– WAIT

2) She is serious about a guy and is ready to make it permanent– WAIT

3) She is married, committed, has stated to the world that she is in a relationship with just this one guy.  They have just had sex.

GO FOR IT.  ENJOY EACH OTHER

4) After a fight they have made up Big Time, and she gave this advice.

I want you to promise me, O young women of Jerusalem,

that you will surely arouse, you will surely awaken love

when love pleases to awaken GLK

Not only Go for it, but SUPERCHARGE IT.

The advice in Song of Solomon leads to great sex that continues to get better as the relationship grows.  The people in the survey can feel good about sex for a little while, but they aren’t building anything.  It won’t make it to great.

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