Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread abroad.
the west wind brings rain (I Kings 18:44-45) and the east wind is hot and withering (genesis 41:23, Job 27:27), the north wind clears the air with cool breezes (job 37:21-22) and the south wind brings warmness (job 37:17) Thus the north and south winds promote growth if they come and interchange at proper times. (24)
Let my lover come into his garden and taste its choice fruits.
Guys when a girl is totally confident in you, when she is mentally, physically, and spiritually ready it can be an awesome experience. The wedding night is a great time for it.
Now if you have fooled her because she is a girl and you would like to have sex with her without any commitment, she could have total confidence in you, and be mentally, physically, and spiritually ready. But when she finds out it is just a lie, just a game for you, she will be mad and hurt and will have a much harder time ever reaching that feeling of freedom and oneness with a guy. You are the man NOT.