Maybe you want to think about the reasons given. Do they make sense for you ? -- learn from the mistakes of others, you can’t live long enough to make them all yourself. Sex is a very useful way to make up after a fight. In Song of Solomon they are very creative in using it to help resolve the fight they had. Both were willing to make changes … [Read more...] about Why did you have sex? I wanted to make up after a fight
They had a fight. In Chapter 6, he comes back and makes up with her. He praises her, which is always helpful, then gives a weird round about explanation of where he went. She accepted his explanation and they went off together to patch things up. Sometimes you need a little space apart to think things through. You need some time together … [Read more...] about Easy for you to say
The minister that counseled us before we got married used this illustration. If we assume things about our spouse and how life will work out we make an ass out of u and me ASS U ME He was right. Try this if you are dating. Ask each other about 'fixed patterns of personal behavior'. For example -- when you wake up in the morning how do … [Read more...] about Assume — ASS out of U and ME
Solomon gave a rambling explanation of where he had been and what he had done. Several commentaries state that this is one of the hardest verses in the Bible to translate. When I read that, I knew exactly what it was. He had left mad and was going places that he knew. But he wasn't really paying attention to where he was going. He was mad and … [Read more...] about The Explanation — What??
Grandpa While they were looking for him he shows up. He doesn't wait for her to say anything. He starts right in with this: Chapter 6 verses 4-11 You are beautiful my darling as Tirzah, lovely as Jerusalem, majestic as troops with banners. Turn your eyes from me, they overwhelm me. Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from … [Read more...] about The Play — He comes back