The minister that counseled us before we got married used this illustration.  If we assume things about our spouse and how life will work out  we make an ass out of u and me ASS   U  ME He was right.  Try this if you are dating.  Ask each other about 'fixed patterns of personal behavior'.  For example -- when you wake up in the morning how do … [Read more...] about Assume — ASS out of U and ME