If you say No, Stop or Wait, he might say: you are just afraid you just listen to your mother and not yourself just try it this one time I can get out in time -- trust me To start with, if you believe that last one, you better put the home pregnancy test on you shopping list. He will have plenty of excuses afterward, but don't count … [Read more...]
Saying NO, gracefully
verse 7 My lover is like a gazelle or a young stag. Look! There he stands behind our wall, gazing through the windows, peering through the lattice. He is coming to her house. Her feeling are aroused. But he doesn't come in where sexual contact would be easy and they could be alone. verses 11-13 See! The winter is past; the rains … [Read more...]
The guy needs to be the one to say no, not yet, not without commitment, wait
If he ever hopes to have a wife who will have respect for him If he ever hopes to be the leader in their relationship If he wants a wife who enjoys sex with him. A wife who can continually surprise him. A wife who will have sexual relations with him until his brains fall out of his head. Guys: Who says yes or no or maybe later at … [Read more...]
If You Tell Her No …
2:16-17 - Will She Tell You To Go? Scripture Text: Song of Solomon 1:16-17 verses 16-17 Now she is alone again. She is lying in her bed. She is speaking about him, not to him. She wants him to be like a gazelle or a young stag. She wants this on the rugged hills, the hills of separation. The hills are her breasts and she wants him to be … [Read more...]
Look Who Says No
2:8-10 - This guy isn't passive Scripture Text: Song of Solomon 2:8-10 verse 8 They are starting to fall in love, to narrow their focus to each other, to become a couple. She appears to be speaking from her house in this next section. These are her thoughts. She could be speaking out loud while she is by herself, or the Song is telling us what … [Read more...]
