If you say No, Stop or Wait, he might say: you are just afraid you just listen to your mother and not yourself just try it this one time I can get out in time -- trust me To start with, if you believe that last one, you better put the home pregnancy test on you shopping list. He will have plenty of excuses afterward, but don't count … [Read more...]
Section two — Becoming Serious
Section Two Becoming Serious 2:8 - 3:5 Is the guy saying NO (in a very careful way)? Have they had sex yet Is she following her own advice now? This section starts out with her at home and he is just arriving. The voice of my beloved! Behold! He comes leaping over the mountains, bounding over the hills. My beloved is like a … [Read more...]
Marshmallow Experiment
Go to youtube or google, or where ever and search for the marshmallow experiment. There will be plenty of examples. The basic theme is leave a small child in a room alone, sitting at a table with a marshmallow in front of them on a plate. The child is told that they can eat the marshmallow now, or they can wait until the person comes back and … [Read more...]
Going Deeper — timing is everything
In the play, they made it to the wedding night. They are alone. They have waited for this day. A little more control by the guy and he will find that the wait was worth it. For this couple, he starts by describing what he sees and how he likes it. He moves on to describing what he tastes, and what he touches. Now is the time for the girl to … [Read more...]
The Play — alone all night
Shulammite to the audience 2.16 My beloved is mine, and I am his he who grazes among the lotus flowers. 17 When the day breathes and the shadows flee, turn; be like my beloved a gazelle or a young stag on the divided mountains. Narrator Notice that she is ready for more physical contact than he is offering. She … [Read more...]
