She turns him down. It doesn’t say why. Just because you are married doesn’t’ mean you will always think alike. You will have different expectations, different timing, different priorities. It is easy to have negative thoughts about the other person. You know what you are thinking, what you meant by what you said or did. You only know what the other person said or did. It is easy to justify that you are right and they are wrong. That doesn’t make it true. Truth comes from outside of the two of you. If one of you claims that they alone have he truth, life gets ugly very quickly.