The couple come back and join her friends. He leaves and her friends or maybe her brothers make this statement
Chapter 8 verses 8-9
We have a little sister, and she has no breasts.
What shall we do to prepare our sister for the day on which she is spoken for?
If she is a wall, we shall build upon her an embankment of silver.
If she is a door, we shall enclose her with planks of cedar.
She has no breasts, as in her breasts haven’t filled out yet. They compare her to two things, a wall and a door. Does she say wait, or is she eager to having sex?
If she is eager, they will board her up. They will make it hard for her to be in a position where she could have sex.
If she is willing to wait, they will help her to look attractive.
They aren’t picking on her, they are helping her reach for the best.
Of course, if she has decided she wants to have sex, she is going to have sex. There is an abundance of guys who would gladly open the door go right in.
People who care about you can help you be a wall.
People who want to use you can help you be a door.