Warning for the guys.
Women can use the physical as a short cut to get a guy to do what they want him to do.
Let me illustrate this with training a dog. A dog can be trained to sit up, lie down, roll over, speak and many other things, by using ‘doggy treats’ as a reward. Give the command, wait for the proper response, give the reward. Repeat process over and over.
A guy can be trained to perform all kinds of tricks by using ‘guy treats’ as a reward. By letting him see, touch, and do physical things with her, a woman can use this reward system to get a guy to do all kinds of things. This can be fun, but notice a couple of things. Once a dog is trained it is easy for someone else to get the dog to do tricks. The dog isn’t performing for the person, it is performing for the treats. Guys can be trained to perform for sex, or for anything he thinks leads in that direction. They aren’t performing for the person, they are performing for the sex. It is easy for someone else to get the guy to perform for them once he has been trained. When a person says “That is all, no more treats”, the dog will perform tricks for other people, hoping for the treat.
So will guys.