Why did you have sex? I wanted to gain acceptance from friends
Maybe you want to think about the reasons given. Do they make sense for you ?
— learn from the mistakes of others, you can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.
When I was in high school, kids would stand around a little distance from school and smoke. They would offer me cigarettes and try to get me to join them. They were offering to be friends if I would join them. But when they decided I wasn’t going to smoke with them, they would pull out the negative — What’s the matter? Do you think you are too good for us? Are you afraid? Did your mommy and daddy tell you that you couldn’t smoke?
Could this apply to friends accepting you because you are filling to have sex and be like them? If you realize that you are accepted by God as you are, then find friends who will accept you for what you are, not for being who they think you should be.
Reasons why people have sex
Most of the reasons given for having sex are from a list that Dr Cindy Meston and Dr David M Buss compiled from a survey they took. Their list provided 232 reasons.
Compare this to the advice is Song of Solomon She was flirting with the guy and getting turned on — Wait She was serious about the guy and ready to make it permanent — Wait. The guy was the one who was taking the lead in waiting. Married, committed –Go for it and Enjoy it. After a fight and make up sex — go for it and Supercharge it.
You will never get to Great Sex until it involves your heart, soul, mind and strength. And until you love the other person as much as you love yourself. All of this has to apply to the other person too. Two people all the way into the relationship or it will never make it to great.