Why did you have sex? I was bored
Maybe you want to think about the reasons given. Do they make sense for you ?
— learn from the mistakes of others, you can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.
Take up sky diving, or rock climbing or some extreme sport. You can take care of boredom that way. When things go wrong it probably results in some broken bones, and maybe some internal injuries. When you use sex to overcome boredom things will usually go wrong. The injuries tend to be emotional and can heal slower than broken bones. You were trying to relieve boredom, but what about the other person. They could become attached to you and could prove very difficult to get rid of. Boredom could start looking real good compared to trying to extract someone out of your life after using them sexually.
Reasons why people have sex
Most of the reasons given for having sex are from a list that Dr Cindy Meston and Dr David M Buss compiled from a survey they took. Their list provided 232 reasons.
Compare this to the advice is Song of Solomon
She was flirting with the guy and getting turned on — Wait
She was serious about the guy and ready to make it permanent — Wait.
The guy was the one who was taking the lead in waiting.
Married, committed –Go for it and Enjoy it.
After a fight and make up sex — go for it and Supercharge it.
You will never get to Great Sex until it involves your heart, soul, mind and strength. And until you love the other person as much as you love yourself. All of this has to apply to the other person too. Two people all the way into the relationship or it will never make it to great.