Why did you have sex? It was in the heat of the moment.
Maybe you want to think about the reasons given. Do they make sense for you ?
Think about what you have done in the heat of the moment. You said something, got into a fight, or did something you hadn’t planned on doing. Now think about how many times it worked out well. If it doesn’t work in other areas of your life, why would it work out well having sex?
You end up saying “Oh, no, I can’t believe I did that” and then end up asking your friends “Now what do I do?” They could give you advice on what would be smart to do before, now they can only advise you on how to clean up the mess.
Reasons why people have sex
Most of the reasons given for having sex are from a list that Dr Cindy Meston and Dr David M Buss compiled from a survey they took. Their list provided 232 reasons.
— learn from the mistakes of others, you can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.
Compare this to the advice is Song of Solomon
She was flirting with the guy and getting turned on — Wait
She was serious about the guy and ready to make it permanent — Wait.
The guy was the one who was taking the lead in waiting.
Married, committed –Go for it and Enjoy it.
After a fight and make up sex — go for it and Supercharge it.
You will never get to Great Sex until it involves your heart, soul, mind and strength. And until you love the other person as much as you love yourself. All of this has to apply to the other person too. Two people all the way into the relationship or it will never make it to great.