She thought he was wonderful, perfect, and great before they got married.
Now she has all kinds of habits, and actions, and thoughts that he should change. Now the changing and training kicks into full swing. He will get more sarcasm and criticism and less sex. What happened?
She actually thought that you were wonderful, perfect and great material to work with. Now she will try to model you into the image she has for her husband, and the father of her kids,
If you were having sex, as in intercourse, or at least lots of touching and groping, she can throw out this line in any or all of its versions.
You pushed me into it.
You pressured me.
I would tell you stop and you wouldn’t listen.
Guys if she was pregnant, she has the trump card. She has the argument that always wins. YOU got ME PREGNANT. It is like when you were a little kid, and your mom caught you in the act of stealing cookies. There is no use arguing the point — you lose.
Girls — this doesn’t work out well. You may get the guy. You may change some of his outward appearances and actions. But you are slowly losing him. Whether he sticks around in the marriage or not, on the inside he is bailing out and isn’t there.
Guys — a lady that I worked with, came back from the bathroom. She was in a stall when two girls came in talking about their boyfriends. She was embarrassed and pulled her feet up off the floor so that they didn’t know she was there She said that one of the girls was telling the other one how to get their boyfriend to get them pregnant, and to make him thing it was his fault. Within 18 months, both of the girls were pregnant and both of them were married to their guy. Bottom line. If you are out having sex with many women, the one you like the least is the most likely to get pregnant and expect you to do something about it. If you combine that with the way DNA is increasingly being used, and the way States and the Federal government are looking for ways to pay for things, this will become a very expensive proposition.