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You probably are afraid to…..

August 4, 2014 By dschenk Leave a Comment

You probably are afraid to:

  • Kiss
  • Hug
  • Be with a real man
  • Experience love
  • Go any farther

If the guy is older than you

If he has had more experience than you,

then he might try this kind of line.

There could be some truth in this dumb line.  You might be afraid to Kiss, Hug, be with a  real man (have sex), experience love (have sex), go any farther.

The conclusion he want to draw is that you should do these things with him.  and the only thing holding you back are your little childhood fears.  His conclusion — grow up a little and do what he wants.

My conclusion is that you haven’t decided what you are ready to do, and who you are ready to do it with.  Whenever someone is pressing for you to make a decision NOW, the decision should be to say no and back off and think it through.

Are you waiting for marriage?  Are you waiting until it feels right?

Slow down and think  it through.

Carpenters have a saying:  measure twice, cut once.  That means that when you measure where to cut a board you make a mark on the board.  It is a good idea to double check your measurement.  If it is wrong it is easy to change the mark.  But once you cut the board, if you find out the cut it in the wrong place, you can’t go back and change it.  You have to deal with the length that you cut the board.

Take your time.  If a guy is trying to rush you to make a decision, it is probably because he knows he won’t like your decision if you think it through.

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